No Strings Attached: Yeah right


After watching “No Strings Attached” (which will be out  on DVD in May) in theaters I really started thinking…Can a person really just have sex with someone and there be no strings? In my opinion I think that no I don’t think that it is possible. Now I know you are thinking: well how would this small town girl know all she probably knows is being in relationships and what not. Well yes you’re about right if you think that, however; I know a lot of people who tried this and personally it failed for them. So I’m going off of that. Okay first of all I would like to start out by giving a definition that basically describes what a friend with benefit is. According to Urban Dictionary a Friend with Benefit is: Two friends who have a sexual relationship without being emotionally involved; typically two good friends who have casual sex without a monogamous relationship or any kind of commitment. Now that we know what a friend with benefit is we can talk about why I think that it is not possible. I have basically two different theories on why this is. The first one is because of how female’s emotional tendencies always manage to get in the way. As a female myself I know that we are very emotional people. I also know that sex for us is more than just well sex. It is a chance to get closer physically and mentally with your partner. So if you are just causally having sex with a friend you are bound to feel something towards that him. It might not happen right away but it will happen. Then even if a female is okay with just having sex with said friend, men will find a way to mess it up. Men are well strange and complicated creatures and their minds are just as scary. Men “don’t like other guys playing with their toys” and their jealously will most defiantly get the better of them. Maybe not at first but soon it will bug him to no end. All these feelings will boil up inside him until he bust and boom no more friend with bene.   As I stated before: YOU CAN NOT HAVE SEX WITHOUT THERE BEING SOME SORT OF EMOTION ATTACHED TO IT. So to save you from all this emotional damage do what I do and just don’t do it. Save yourself for someone who you truly love and adore.  I’m not saying that no person on this planet isn’t able to have friends with benefits. There are a handful of people who can. So if you are among the handful of people who can good for you this post may not relate to you personally but I hope that you still do take something from it. Now I want to hear from you guys…What do you think about the Friends with benefits subject? Do you feel that you can have sex without all the emotionally attachment or are you like me and think that it is impossible? Leave comments and tell me what you think.

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